To make the relationship lasts, you need two people working at it. If you are reading this, it means you are trying to do your part. A very good sign. Let’s find out how to be a good girlfriend.
Trust and Faith. Every relationship needs a complete faith and trust from both partners. If you have doubt or do not trust your partner, you are not having a healthy relationship. Discuss it, if possible. Honesty is the most important factor in the relationship. You can have all the love and passion for each other but if there is a lack of trust and honesty in your relationship, then it is already half doomed!
Look Beautiful. By looking beautiful, I don’t mean you have to be super gorgeous. It is good, if you already are. What I mean is try to look clean and pretty. Men love to look at beautiful things. Dress up for him. But please don’t go over board. Look pretty but not so deck up. One more thing I like to add here is that once you look beautiful, you, naturally, will feel confident making you look more interesting.
Give Him Privacy. Men need their spaces. They have their caves that they have created. Their minds always wonder in there. Don’t get discouraged when you notice that your man is not telling you or talking to you when you know there is something that is bothering him. He is usually in that cave. Give him sometimes. Men hates to be invaded. Don’t ever dare to invade their privacy. If they say, they are going with friends, give him the time to go out with his friends and so should you. Respect and trust come together with it. Give each other respect, trust and privacy.
Do Not Order Him. Men are born to be hunters. They are born to be chasers. They are born to be that way. Ordering your boyfriend or husband to do something (especially in front of others) crushes his ego. Men feel they are the leaders therefore, leaders do not take orders but give orders. If you want things done by him, never order. However, learn to ask him indirectly that he gets things done without him feeling like he has been ordered by you.
Be Yourself. There is a reason he is interested in you. He likes you for how you are. So do not try to change yourself so you can be with him all the time or to please him. Have your own circle of friends, have your own activities. Do things together but also do your own things. Guess what, you look more interesting when your life does not revolve around him alone.
Appreciate Him. Appreciate the little things he does. Do not wait to show your a He will be happy to hear you appreciation. Do not assume he knows. He will be happy.